This is my brief input and advice from the experience I had on the Cebu tour. And that is, do not sell yourself or her short! Deciding on your future partner in life for the rest of your life is not an offhand decision. It takes time and turmoil of emotions for both of you. Get to know the women/woman, and let them know the man. Take as much time to do that as you possibly can - stay for the one week tour (or longer if possible) a week flies by entirely too fast.