I admit that I have not been on this site for a long time, but long enough that I should have made some sort of connection with a man by now & I have not!. The only thing that I can gather is that a few men have placed me on their favorites list, & I have gotten a couple of hellos, but that is it! No further conversations from them & I have a so called premium subscription! I think the site monitors & controls the messages! I think they do that so you can hang in there on the site month after month, so they make more money! Because there is no way that men will place you on their favorites list & only say hello & NOTHING ELSE! I have reached back out to these same men, & it's like I have not, because I get NO responses back! No way! This site is rigged imo! & I will be getting off of it asap! They have a forum site, & I posted in it, & they did not publish my comments, because I brought all of this up, that I was not receiving responses back from suitors, so why would they not post my comments, hmmmm, they were my thoughts. Is it that my comments would expose them... It's not like they don't know how I feel because I sent them an email to the administrator explaining my grievances, & they have not responded back to me! Stay away ladies! Keep your $$ in your purses!