Every Sugar Daddy website is the same. Post your profile, and photos are free. To chat with the women, you pay for credits or whatever is needed to chat via message. Keep in mind this is not your regular dating website. Women are for sale to the highest bidder. It's sad, but this is the truth. Most of the women are in their late teens or twenties. Remember, if you meet them, this is a transaction, and they have no feelings involved. You are seen as an ATM or money tree, and that's it. If you don't meet their price, then forget it; they want nothing to do with you. It's a heartless, emotionless business on any sugar daddy website. Cash is king, and you are not. These women will tell you what you want to hear to keep calling them up for a transactional relationship. Most of them are nice, friendly, and outgoing. They are intelligent. Most of them are attractive but not beautiful. The prices they charge you for their time are costly. It's more than what attorneys charge per hour. The business is risky because you don't know if you are talking to someone who is an undercover cop posing to try to get you to offer or solicit money for sex. I spoke to two women as a means of information who had been in this business for at least one year or more. Here are the precautions. You will have to wear a condom if it goes in that direction. These women are paranoid in a sense they don't want to get arrested. They are very careful what they say to you. You will not get their real cellphone number. It may be a VoIP number. What they tell you about their career could be the truth or a lie. Every time you meet, be prepared to pay a lot of money out of pocket. This is not traditional dating when you go out with a woman. They are not with you because you are a good guy and a good catch. It's all about money, and that's it. This borders prostitution, and the only difference is the words they use to describe the transaction. PPM (pay per meet). A monthly or weekly allowance. You will hear these terms to avoid police detection. Everything is said to avoid saying you are soliciting. Guys, these women from any sugar daddy website are in large cities to small towns. What will blow you away is the age group they are in. Ages 18–25 are the norm. The girls could be your daughter's age. I wanted to try this as an experiment and out of curiosity. For me, it was five days, and that was long enough. My conscience bothered me even though I did not have an inappropriate relationship with these two women. It was a conversation. If you decide this is what you want to do, you better be wealthy and make a lot of money. This one lady I met for a meetup, as they call it, at a restaurant was very smart and nice. Attractive but not beautiful. These women will ask you what type of arrangement you are seeking or what you are looking for. They are waiting for you to tell them. She told me that she had a recent client who paid her $4000 a month. Each week, $1,000 to meet up. I'm sure he had one thing on his mind with her. The other girl who I talked to told me that all the women there do not want a traditional dating relationship. They don't want a commitment or a regular boyfriend. Guys, this is sad. Women set a price for their time with you, which could be sexual in nature. To me, this is unhealthy for women. This is not the norm. In the future, this will harm their mental health, if not already. I can tell you from talking to both women there are trust issues with men. My advice is to stay away from SugarDaddy websites. These women are not meeting you to build a friendship or relationship with you. I asked one of them how she kept her emotions at bay and did not fall in love with the men she meets. She didn't give me an answer, but gave me another answer instead. Everything about this made me think this is prostitution using different words. Be careful guys/
I spent an hour or more carefully and meticulously choosing an appropriate description of myself, my interests and what I'm looking for in a sugardaddy relationship, then I spent another 40 minutes carefully choosing 9 photos to be sure I wouldn't have to pic new ones, and I verified my phone number, recieved the code and submitted the code, was able to view a couple profiles, and as I attempted to go back to a previous profile I was intrigued by it bumped me out to step 4 of 5 as if I never completed steps 4 and 5, when in reality I DID! NOW WHEN I TRY LOGING IN IT KEEPS REROUTING TO STEP 4 AND WONT ALLOW ME TO CONTINUE! I WAS SATISFIED WITH MY PROFILE AND IM POSITIVE I DID NOT BREAK ANY OF THE RULES I HAD AGGREED TO IN THE BEGINING, AND JUST THE THOUGHT OF HAVING TO START OVER IS TOO EXHAUSTING AND NOT WORTH THE TEDIOUSEFFORT I ALREADY PUT FORTH! VERY DISSAPPOINTING TO SAY THE LEAST! BUT IM CONFIDENT I WILL FIND A SIMILAR SITE THAT WILL APPRECIATE MY BUSINESS MORE THAN SUGARDADDYMEET.COM! I will be sure to let everyone I know to steer clear of this business because they very clearly don't feel their customers time is worthy! Now I'm editing my review because they have the audacity to ask me for my name, date of birth, and location before submitting this review... REALLY DID I NOT TYPE ALL THAT IN IN MY EFFING PROFILE? Okay I'm back editing a second time, so third actual attempt! Where did this red car profile pic come from anyway? It's not my pic nor is it one I chose! I submitted 9 photos, where t F are those? This site is DESPICABLE, AND SO WRONG ON SO MANY LEVELS!
This was advertised as a free dating site! So that isn't illegal??? THATS FALSE ADVERTISING! CROOKS!!! WHY AM I GUNA PAY TO FIND A SUGARDADDY??? INSULT TO MY INTELLIGENCE AT THE VERY LEAST!!!!
This app is a waste of my time and it actually makes me laugh. I did not actually think that there would be men on here pretending to have money. If you think you are a SD please go look up the definition first then come back to reality and give yourself that title. The old men can not hold a conversation worth crap first off and then you have the ones who are non stop messaging you to answer them every 2 min. NONE of them have money to back what they are showing up. And for the love of god we know what SD and SB have intimacy involved but do you have to constantly bring it up like you haven't got some in years? Being desperate looks horrible on a SD. The only issue I have had is a lot of racism because I as a black SB just moved to Texas and its either a fetish or a control or a slavery act these SD are looking for. I went on a date and he paid a good amount but the whole time if not grabbing up on me was talking down on every black women he saw coming in. H has constant drama with his old SB who still lived with him but they were not having an arrangement they just had drama and she would not leave his home. He made a comment "I only have a black SB because I would never fall in love or date a black women" that came out of his own mouth. He just kept rambling on about all the hate he had for women ex: his ex wife, old SB, his daughter waiting for him to die to take his money and so on and so forth. I knew he had money and could probably pay great but I would prefer to be broke then have all that unnecessary drama and misogynic behavior in my life. He would nonstop grabbing me inappropriately in front of people even when I asked him not too and he was just desperate for sex a complete turn off. But like I said within all these sites there will always be weirdos it comes with the game. Scamming doesn't tend to happen to much for me because before I waste my time I always tell them to send me a picture if them doing a certain pose. Example peace sign, flip me off something they cant go searching up on a web to pretend to be someone else. If it takes them more then a day to respond back I delete them. I don't really stress about this app to much because with anything to do with money there will always be scammers and posers and fake pages you just have to have common sense. Also to those commenting about prostitution or whores or the way the SB looks watch your mouths. Because sorry to tell you there are men buying there service on this app that's why they are on here use common sense. And commenting about there looks but most of you are 50+ loosing hair looking like a walking zombie and you are commenting on a SB look. Go look in the mirror before commenting on others looks please and thanks. Anyways would I recommend this app if you have 0 patience and tolerance for stupidity NO but if your good with handling that kind of stuff and want a bag YES.
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SD if you want to get a real SB attention you need to actually talk about money and make it a comfortable conversation. And to those who write 'I don't want this to feel like a transaction" I need you to have a little common sense IT IS A TRANSACTION. Regardless of how you want it to look it will always be a transaction because its a give and take arrangement. That's the point of the app. Don't make SB feel bad for asking about an arrangement or money. Also the less you look desperate to sleep the more the SB wants to be with you and give it up. Regardless of the situation if its a relationship, situationship, arrangement nobody wants to constantly talk about sleeping with you. Also the less negative you talk about women the more attraction you will get and less scammers. As much as you say there are SB scammers there are a lot more SD scammers.
Anyways many luck to you all be safe, be kind. And have a lot of common sense on both ends. Many blessings
This will be a long rant. I had spoken with a guy for about 2 or 3 days. I really liked him. We came up with an allowance and I was super excited. Then the flags happened. Long story short he wanted to send me an electronic check have me deposit it and have me send him half of the amount that he gave me back to him using Zelle. That my friends is a scam. A Salt Daddy. This SD was a house flipper and according to him he was great at it. Thinking back I was remembering how he kept repeating that he hopes that he can trust me and that I was honest and that he wants me for long term. He also pointed out that he was verified by the website, so obviously he's safe and he's not a scammer. An SD should never ask you to send him back money and an SD should know the safest ways to give allowances. SDs scam just as much as SBs.
To the SDs I say there are legitament SBs. But MOST of you want the trophy petite girl. Big rack, small waist, and an $#*! you can ride for days! You don't even try girls that might be plain Jane or a thicker girl. You seem to only want the Insta-Models. You might have to choose a regular gal that can still give you what you want. If you want her glammed up then maybe you can upgrade her life if she so chooses. If you are a fit SD then choose a thick girl. You may inspire her to get fit too. We all know how sex is a great way to burn some libbies. The only ones who can get the trophy petite are the SUPER FIT SD or the Uber Rich SD that actually spend money. Not a Splenda Daddy and not a Salt Daddy. You guys want to get all up in us for $100 per meet or per month. No! For starters pay per meeting is a no to a SB. Unless you are seeing us every other day that doesn't work for us. For allowance if you can't pay $300 a week or a monthly allowance of $1500, then the SD bowl is not for you.
For the SB, if you are plain Jane you won't get any Uber Rich, Young, and Fit SD. You are gonna have to level up to get all that in one SD. Please don't be greedy ladies. We all want the BIG WHALE, but those guys are literally looking for the pin-up. You might have to go for someone who makes 200k to $300k a year instead of the millionare. Or you might have to go with the guy with the Pony Keg instead of the 8 pack. Possibly someone who is losing their hair. When you take your pictures turn off the filters. Let them choose you and not a filter.
For everyone be safe. Don't give sensitive info. I gave my name and email, but the email I gave is not my main email. I gave my name for the check, but I researched the company that he uses for the check (which is legit), but once he asked about my bank. I knew it was my final red flag to know it was a scam. Always insist on a video chat. That helps both sides make sure that they are speaking to the person in the profile. After that if you want to start the arrangement fine. If they say, "I'm too busy" keep it moving. Research safest ways to give and receive money. You will run into more scammers then legit, but that's power for the course.
To the website people both sides need more then just their pic was verified. Scammers are still getting through. You need to have SD click something that says that they are aware of what a SD is and that as a SD they will be giving gifts, payments etc. There are too many profiles that are fighting the fact that they are not going to pay or give gifts, but they want the SB to give them their "Girlfriend, Wifey, or 50 Shades their way" experience for whatever crumbs that they find suitable to give us. Uhm no. I added a text from the Salt Daddy so you can see what I'm talking about. And just to add this rant is also for Sugar Mommas (SM) and SB as well.
Be patient with the process. Always suggest video chat, DO NOTgive personal info. If you send a private pic cut off your head and air brush any markings that can prove it you. Don't let anyone pray on your emotions. There are plenty of companions out there. Be prepared to shift who your "type" is.