GoChatty ended up being at the top for me. You can really feel that it's built for actual dialogue. Convenient sorting, filtering by interests, age, location. Big plus - you can start chatting without paying upfront. I love that there's no spammy notifications or fake profiles just to bait you in.
After losing my husband, I felt invisible. A friend suggested GoChatty for companionship. I hesitated, but WOW. Joined and met a widower who's become my rock. We share memories, cry, and even laugh about silly things. The privacy settings let me control who see my photos. Not gonna lie it's been healing. 💞 Thanku! For giving me hope again.
I'm a grown man. I don't need bouncing stickers, hearts, anime avatars. I came here to talk. And GoChatty lets me do that - calmly, without fluff. You log in and it doesn't feel like a circus. Other sites feel like high school parties.
Tech support? I tested them on purpose - asked a weird question about recovering a hidden message. They answered in 12 minutes with no copy-paste nonsense.
These are real people and real conversations. You can pay if you want, but there's plenty to do even for free. I liked that the site doesn't overwhelm you - everything's simple and clear. Met a girl and now we're joking in chat like old friends.
I'm tired of platforms where you have to "prove" you're not crazy or can't even message until you fill in ten steps. Here, you're treated like a human. You write - someone replies. Or doesn't. That's it. Honest. That's what I was missing. People are simpler and real here.
The best discovery - almost no aggression here. The moderation is fast and filters out rudeness. You can even set your profile to say "no tolerance for rude messages" and the system will filter stuff automatically.
At first I thought, weird site, kinda looks like it's from 2010. But then it hooked me. People here are active, they message first - that's rare. I've had better experiences elsewhere, but this one feels honest.
The site was a pleasant surprise. Simple interface, not overloaded, everything is logical and easy to navigate. Found a few interesting people to talk to literally within the first few days. What stood out - no aggressive ads, and you're not asked for money every step. Chats work smoothly, and most profiles seem legit.
I've talked to several women and to no avail they won't leave this site to talk on the phone or face time. I'm not sure if they are real. I spent a lot of money for nothing. My stupidity I think the girls make money.
This place is A) too expensive b) too many fake bots That being said you can't meet a real person or chat with a real person no woman can give you a phone number or call you outside of the site which initially is good but you're here to meet people so it's counter productive and clearly a fake scam
The ladies on site are equal to models with their glamor photos and friendly in their conversation text messages and photos or videos. Unfortunately, their response will always end with needing to converse on the site longer, which is understandable with the current state of our society with the bad actors praying on these dating sites. How ever I found that it turned into a never-ending loop of perpetual text messages that I was charged for at different rates for chat, letter, photo, or video. As I explained to the ladies that I was looking for a lasting relationship since the loss of my wife, which they said they were looking for as well. However, they continued with the never ending continue to converse only on this site to the point I had to leave for the cost being too substantial. I apologized to the ladies and wished them good fortune and explained why I was departing from the site. If you have deep pockets or an above average pay grade this site could work for you but not the average male.
I have texted with four women so far, none of them do the profession they say they do. The latest said she was a surgeon, so when I asked her about what dialysis was for, she didn't know. Also, they seem to be online all the time, that means they must be making money from every time someone texts them. This site is not what I had hoped and I can get more for other sites that are less money or even virtual. They must be from overseas and ask ridiculous questions just to keep you texting. As a widower, I am just looking for a friendly person to chat with but at these rates, I'm better off somewhere else with real people who do not "use" me.
I have bought 90 credits or 130 and ran out with two messages. This happens on this site more than others. If it's 10 cents per message why am I having to reload after two photos and a couple of messages. Please check into this and let me know how you can help me. Thanks
Pay to chat site. Same as the others. I was lured yet again by free credits, but the reality is I can't justify spending money I can ill afford chasing (what are more than likely) pipe dreams. Entertainment value is good, but not at the cost to keep it going.
I have to pay to read a message, pay to view photos that I can not save to my PC, pay to save them on the site, pay to send a message, pay to send a photo. It is totally ridiculous. I am surprised that I do not have to pay to sign on - although I might be doing so and just not noticed. Many, if not most, of the women are not serious about actually meeting. I am, so this is a waste of my time.
As a victim of dating site fraud, I tend to be very reluctant. The standards of women portrayed are almost too good to be true. The cost of communication and revealing information in USD will soon use up the credits and eventually cost you a fortune, particularly if your chosen woman is a planted persona non-gratis.
Although I got many messages, All the women looked like young models which is odd since I am a much older man than all of them. That doesn't happen in the real world. That would be flattering but I had very little about who I was on my profile. So it looked too good to be true in a short time and sometimes if things look too good to be true then they are. I don't usually say that I hate things but I can come close to saying that about the credit system the site uses. And after a lot of messages the 3 women I was writing, they all kept saying they wanted to stay on the site and get to know me better. I don't know how they can afford to constantly be using and buying credits to send so many messages because they did not seem like rich women. The site would not let me give out contact information. I can see how the credit scheme is a great business model for the owners but I would prefer a flat subscription model. I will never recommend this site to anyone.
All the women I met here wanted to extend the expensive chat talks or offered nude pictures after 5 minutes of talk. The chat function is exaggerated expensive and you loose easy going 100 Euro and couldn't even talked one day with someone. All together a very bad experience.
Well, at first it seems legit & connecting to these ladies in there seems nice. But, it's very expensive for (what appears to be) fake connections.
The Go Chatty people claim they don't have paid people but if the connection is real, why keep paying for communication? If this was legit & your connection is real then you would take steps in progression (ie, text, calls, video chat). Yet, these ladies won't go anywhere but this platform. This doesn't make sense. Each time you buy more "coins" you'll get tons of women sending you messages. Then when you are really low on "coins" you get tons of messages. But nothing really in between. 95% of these women are Dr's, lawyers, pilots, etc. You won't get very many waitresses or bartenders. Kind of strange. I went through way to much money thinking this was real but appears (to me) it's a scam.
Be very aware before you continue on this platform.
*update: not sure why it shows that this site tried to contact me for some form of resolution but I have not received an email or call from anyone from sitejabber regarding this review!
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