I had second thoughts about a purchase and wrote to them in order to cancel (within 24 hours). They wrote back and said there was nothing they could do.
Time passes and I receive nothing and now I they claim they sent the item by regular mail from the US to EU... no tracking. Scam company. Avoid!
The rudest customer service staff I have ever encountered. It is amazing that the management of this site seems to be oblivious to a vital economic rule: customer likes equals return business.
Never again will I part with a single Dollar with this site!
Dear Cam L.,
We are sorry to hear your experience was not a positive one. We take pride in the products we sell and do our best to provide the best possible customer service. Due to our privacy policies, I am unable to discuss your particular issue on this open forum and welcome the chance to discuss your order with you.
To aid us in looking into this issue further, would you please e-mail us your order number & any pertinent details at: customerservicemanager at extremerestraints.com (replace “at” with@)?
We look forward to hearing from you and resolving this for you. Again, we are sorry for the inconvenience.
Their shipping policy is a SCAM. I'v bought plenty of items that other company ship to your door when you pay for shipping. These guys get ups to ship for an ADDITIONAL COST on top of their shipping cost. It a SCAM to boost prices of their items. Their are better company's to shop for online selling the same products at better prices if you factor in the extra cost of shipping. DO NOT BUY from them unless you plan on paying extra for a item. Their is no discount it's a FRAUDULENT SCAM.
I ordered a few hundred bucks worth of stuff from them, and I had ordered from them before. They had a previously recorded address for me, which I tried to change, apparently, when it actually shipped they still shipped it to the old address anyway. Fine. Mistakes happen.
I contacted the company to try and resolve the issue, "Unfortunately your package was shipped. We are not able to make any changes at this time. I apologize for any inconvenience this may have caused you."
Ok. I called to say, now what? The package will be shipped back to you, and either I can have it shipped to me, or you can give me a refund, right?
Oh no. They can't be responsible for the package.
ARE you f**king kidding me?
Avoid this firm and keep in mind that they use many name on the Internet. Healthy and Active, XR. LLC, Extreme Restraints, Jennas Love Shop, Boyzshop
Once they have your money you are not getting it back even if they have sent you something that won't work or is the wrong item and not what you ordered. They get away with it thinking that consumers won't bother to complain about their shoddy junk and poor return policy.
Stay away from any of their companies - they are consumer unfriendly. See: http://xrllcsucks.blogspot.com/
Fairly large selection with reasonable prices - I like this site as it is one of those purely online stores with fairly good selection of gear. The best part of the site is the large variety of dungeon furniture which is hard to find at decent prices. Overall, I think this site has great bang for the buck. Merchandise is of good quality as well.
I ordered a variety of sex toys for myself and some women I was working with in a very remote community, they sent it via courier which of course make it impossible to get because there is no courier service here. 2 months later I get an email which states it was undeliverable at the previous adress, I had already told them this. Then they wanted an addition shipping charge even though the initial screw up was theirs. Being as they won't do refunds I was stuck paying the additional charge. I had moved so I gave them the adress where I am at now and told them no courier service, it has to be regular mail. Guess how and where they sent it, again! The only thing they can gaurentee is complete incompetence and I still don't have what I ordered.
Extreme restraints replaced a s**t product in place of a product I ordered, but obviously did not have in stock. They gave me no refund, or exchange. BUYER BEWARE, Very disappointing customer service, Terrible Company To Deal With Online!
I WILL NEVER ORDER FROM THIS SITE AGAIN! This is by far the worst company i have ever dealt with in my life. Everything about the process was painful. My delivery never arrived and then i was informed weeks later that it had been returned to them. It took dozens of emails and numerous messages left on their phone before i had to finally speak to a manager to even get my order re-sent. During email conversations i had to repeat myself on many an occasion and the information provided from their so called customer service representatives continually contradicted themselves. I WILL NEVER DO BUSINESS WITH THEM EVER AGAIN!
If everything works, this site is good. But when it fails? Oh, boy do they suck.
Like DL. Below I ordered some items and chose the standard shipping, but when I looked at my receipt the site had changed it to express. Now I know that I didn't choose wrong because I was extremely careful about my choice because the same thing happened to me in September 2013, but I thought it was my fault back then.
So twice the site has changed standard shipping to express shipping at the last stage of ordering. And since you don't get a confirmation screen there is no way to stop is.
As soon as I noticed this I emailed them and asked them to change the shipping option. The answer I got was that this was not possible. I then asked them to cancel the order. This wasn't possible as well.
I then tried to get their "customer service" to acknowledge that there is a fault on their site (no such luck) and to refund me for the shipping charges. After fighting with them for a week I get told that I'd get store credit. That was a week ago and I've still not seen any store credit.
Oh, and since UPS sucks as well I haven't gotten my package yet and it would have been faster with standard shipping.
When Extreme restraints have your money they don't care $#*! about you. I would stay away from this company if I where you and go shop somewhere that cares about you as a customer.
Dear J. L.,
We are sorry to hear your experience was not a positive one. We take pride in the products we sell and do our best to provide the best possible customer service. Due to our privacy policies, I am unable to discuss your particular issue on this open forum and welcome the chance to discuss your order with you.
To aid us in looking into this issue further, would you please e-mail us your order number & any pertinent details at: customerservicemanager at extremerestraints.com (replace “at” with@)?
We look forward to hearing from you and resolving this for you. Again, we are sorry for the inconvenience.
This Junk Is Garbage ( With No Warranty), I Spent Over $400.00@ 1 time, & 1/2 didn't work when i got it & 1/2 Of The Other 1/2, I Used Maybe 5 Times & They Don't Work Either ( Take It Or Leave It, But I Say DONT WASTE YOUR MONEY.
Dear Customer,
We are sorry to hear your experience was not a positive one. We take pride in the products we sell and do our best to provide the best possible customer service. Due to our privacy policies, I am unable to discuss your particular issue on this open forum and welcome the chance to discuss your order with you.
To aid us in looking into this issue further, would you please e-mail us your order number & any pertinent details at: customerservicemanager at extremerestraints.com (replace “at” with@)?
We look forward to hearing from you and resolving this for you. Again, we are sorry for the inconvenience.
I purchased a toy, but what I got was NOT what was advertised. It was advertised as 4" fully inflated, but it was 5" DEFLATED. It was terrifying and completely unusable except as a weapon to scare of intruders. When I contacted them about it, they offered me a 15% refund FOR THEIR MISTAKE. I was expected to take the financial loss for them! DO NOT BUY FROM THESE PEOPLE.
Spent 157 dollars and 2+ weeks later i have not received my goods. Sent a message and never received a reply back.
Hello Daniel, I see that you had placed your order on 1/21 and it shipped standard on the next business day on 1/23. Standard shipping takes 5-7 business days. I see that you had emailed us late at night on 1/31 and we responded the following morning providing you the tracking information on your order. Upon reviewing the tracking, it appears that your local post office received it, then no further updates which means they either lost it, misplaced it or delivered it and did not update the information. In cases like these, we usually work with our customers on reshipping their package free of cost since it was not your fault the post office lost your package. But, you would need to contact our customer service and they will work with you on a solution. I will put notes on your account that they should expect your call or email so they can help resolve this issue.
Do NOT buy from this company. They don't respect or care about their customers in the least. They are simply the greediest, rudest company I have ever bought from.
Dear F T.,
We are sorry to hear your experience was not a positive one. We take pride in the products we sell and do our best to provide the best possible customer service. Due to our privacy policies, I am unable to discuss your particular issue on this open forum and welcome the chance to discuss your order with you.
To aid us in looking into this issue further, would you please e-mail us your order number & any pertinent details at: customerservicemanager at extremerestraints.com (replace “at” with@)?
We look forward to hearing from you and resolving this for you. Again, we are sorry for the inconvenience.
My order was canceled without an update and I found out by myself. They did not return the money either.
I had recently made an order valued at $214.25 to ExtremeRestraints and was soon sent my order confirmation e-mail. All appeared correct, my full order was listed in the e-mail. A day or so later, I received my shipping confirmation e-mail with shipping code... Out of all the products I ordered, only two items were listed (which mind you, were the two cheapest items). Assuming this to just be an error, I waited for my packaged only to be disappointed to find that I had received only those two orders instead of my full order. Checking my statement, I found that they had taken the full order price out and had not refund anything. I sent them an e-mail with copies of the order confirmation and the shipping confirmation for comparison explaining exactly what happend.
The company responded and told me the order had been shipped and that it states it was left on my porch.
I wrote back and told them that I had explained that in my previous e-mail, that I had received a packaged, but the order was incomplete, and informed them of the items I was missing.
After several days, I received this e-mail
"Thank you for your email. We are only able to locate one order under your name. In your order EX********** which was placed on September 24,2015, this order only contained items ST100 and AD699. Please advise if you have placed a second order containing the items you have listed below.
We look forward to your reply."
It appears that this site/company may be a scam and I'll have to dispute this order. I sent them one more e-mail clearly explaining the issue, and once again copies of the order confirmation and shipping confirmation... Highly disappointed because I had hoped the items would have been here before this weekend...
Hello Mr. C.,
Using the information you provided (date and items) I was able to find the order under a customer with the same initials F. C.
The order that came into our system only had the two items on it. Unfortunately, the CSRs in Customer Service cannot see the orders in the backend of the website so they can only go by the orders they see in the order system. I, however, can.
I found your order in the backend of the website. And you are 100% correct. You ordered 5 items. The order that came into our system only shows 2. I have our IT department looking into the issue to prevent this from happening again.
For the issue and trouble you have experienced, I will refund your order.
DO NOT buy from this site - THEY WILL STEAL FROM YOU. I put in an order for about 35$, which was all I could afford at the time. I did not get a confirmation email from my order, but I did check very carefully and read the return information because money is tight for me right now. When I received my order, 3 items had been added to it (and charged to my credit card) to total well over $200. Again - $200 that I did not in any way authorize to be charged to my credit card. When I emailed several times and again when I called, I was told that there was "no way" this could have happened and I "must have" put the items in my cart (even though I had never put these items in my cart), and that they could not accept the items back (even though I had not opened or touched them and was ready to send them back immediately in their original wrapping) or refund my money. No one that I talked to was willing to listen to my story or even discuss options - I was basically told I must be incapable of reading a total before I enter my credit card number.
Hello Lirit P., I was glad that we were able to work things out and issue you a refund. Thank you for working with us on the issue.
Answer: We respect our customers privacy and ship with the name XR, LLC.
Answer: Hello Lynn, I checked all orders from August 3rd to 6th and was unable to find an order placed by the last name of Small. In addition, I also checked customer accounts for the phone number you provided and was unable to find one. If there was a different name provided at checkout, please let us know and we would be happy to assist you. Or, if you have the order number that you would have been provided at checkout, please let us know and we can look into the order.
Answer: I can definitely look into this. However, I would need an order number or name to start the search. We do not have any orders within the past 2 months that have a name starting with Nani. You mentioned express 2 to 4 business days so I will assume this is an international order. In addition, you mentioned they were expensive which may mean they are probably large items? Some of our items cannot ship Express due to their size and weight. If this is the case, we would be able to refund you the difference you paid for express compared to standard. But, to give a definite answer, I would need to see the order first.
Answer: Thank you for the question. It depends if the item in question is defective, or, unwanted. You can find both policies here: http://www.extremerestraints.com/information/custserv/satisfaction-guarantee.html All returns must have an RMA or they will be shipped back to the sender. Defective Item If you receive a defective item, you may return it within 30 days from receipt of delivery. Our Customer Service Representatives will work with you on a solution by replacing the item with the same item, or, will provide store credit for the price paid for the product. If a replacement is desired, the defective item will be replaced upon validation of defect. eXtremeRestraints.com reserves the option as to whether we will need to have this item returned for validation. Our Customer Service Representatives will help guide you through the process. Unwanted Item If you are not satisfied with your purchase, for any reason, you may return it within 30 days of receipt of delivery. Note: Our Customer Service Representatives will provide store credit for the price paid for the product minus a 20% restocking fee.
Answer: Hello. Our order line is open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Our customer service department is open during regular business hours. Customer Service Hours: Monday – Thursday: 7:30 am – 5:00 pm PT (GMT -8) Fridays: 8:00 am – 4:30 pm PT (GMT -8) Our order line is open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week for your convenience. Telephone: USA and Canada: 866-469-2376 International Calls: 714-907-1040 Most orders are processed, packaged and load on the delivery truck immediately. Once an order is placed, it may not be possible to catch the order to make changes to it.
Answer: Hello Robyn - we would be happy to assist you with your return/exchange. We have a new satisfaction guarantee policy that we implemented approximately a month ago on our entire line of products. You can find the details here: http://www.extremerestraints.com/information/custserv/satisfaction-guarantee.html Please make sure you contact our customer service team to arrange the return. All items coming back must have an approved RMA number or the package will be returned. You can reach our customer service team toll free in the US at 866-469-2376, or direct dial from outside the US at 714-907-1040. They are available Mon-Fri 8am-4pm PT (GMT -8).
Answer: Natasha - we do have a "no cancellation policy". However, if we are able to catch the order before it ships, we will cancel the order for store credit. The customer service team is in Mon-Fri so if you send an email over the weekend, they will respond as soon as they can on Monday. We are always willing to work with our customers on a solution when we are able. In regards to your order specifically, if you are the Natasha C. In Canada who placed an order on Saturday, I see that our customer service team was able to catch your order before it was processed by the warehouse. Your order was cancelled this morning and we refunded the payment in full. It is always best to work with a company on a solution. I am always willing to assist and work around our rules when a customer is polite and willing to work with us.
Answer: My order was supposed to be here in 8-12 days im in the uk and its still not here nearly a week after it was due, no reply via email, im not ringing usa, have i been scammed out of my money?
The company exhibits a mixed reputation, with some customers appreciating the prompt order processing and delivery times. However, a significant number of reviews highlight severe dissatisfaction with customer service, particularly regarding the handling of returns, refunds, and shipping errors. Many customers express frustration over perceived unresponsiveness and rudeness from support staff, as well as issues with order cancellations and incorrect billing. Overall, while the product offerings may attract buyers, the prevailing sentiment underscores a critical need for improvement in customer service and support processes to enhance customer satisfaction and retention.
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Dear Emily A.,
We are sorry to hear your experience was not a positive one. We take pride in the products we sell and do our best to provide the best possible customer service. Due to our privacy policies, I am unable to discuss your particular issue on this open forum and welcome the chance to discuss your order with you.
To aid us in looking into this issue further, would you please e-mail us your order number & any pertinent details at: customerservicemanager at extremerestraints.com (replace “at” with@)?
We look forward to hearing from you and resolving this for you. Again, we are sorry for the inconvenience.