Doublelist

There is something strange here. No time stamps on ANYTHING. The men seeking men page stays up to date because we are hounds and m4m ads are what keeps every lifestyle website busy. The women's ads are all either hookers, bots, or ghosts. Couples, like every other lifestyle site are only interested in BBC. I don't blame them, but the entire alternative lifestyle is now about wives, black men, and husbands acting as uber rides and personal assistants. Oh well, it was fun. You folks enjoy. $#*! you Craigslist! It takes you 20 years to feel bad for the children trafficked through your personals, and the only thing you did was kill any free or inexpensive platform for single, working class, men to join in the alternative lifestyle. Solidified the interracial swinging, and frankly, gay men will find each other on any platform.

Ive had my ads booted a few times. Sheesh!... people are so sensitive these days. But i guess Craigslist had it's annoyances too. Trolls were able to effectively have your ads removed after just one flag. If someone (troll) had an issue with you they could make sure you were not going to stay posted while they were online.
My vulgar language when crafting a $#*! search ad on here has been my bane when ive had issue. But this site is the best out there right now and kind of one of the last of the old guard. All other sites have been effectively cancelled or neutered.

When I first started out, I had trouble getting responses and was beginning to lose hope. Then after a week or so, voila! Now I get more than I can manage.

The reason why I only gave it 4 stars is because DL still hasn't done much to refine the location setting for Delaware. It doesn't give a city option and a rare pop-up (not an option) asking for mileage radius doesn't seem to work correctly. I KNOW that Delaware is larger than a 10-mile radius! Ads seem to cover 3 states! I often have to turn down a response for being too far away... like 50mi! That's really messed up.

Finally got the nerve, to set up a meeting. He was much more than I expected, because he was everything he said he was. Didn't think I stood a chance,yet he had me follow him home. Originally he wasn't sure if he would kiss me. Once behind closed doors, he did and did he ever! Didn't get around to topping him as he wished,but I was there to bring him to a great orgasm. Much to my surprise he reached out again & again. However my responsibility to my disabled brother did not allow me to meet again. I posted a " Missed Connection " several times looking for another meeting. Now years later he answered a new post of mine. I realize I would love to hook up again, but do not want to be so enamored with one who treats it all more lightly. No judgment just know myself and now prefer to not be so heavily invested.Everyday I resist getting back in touch.

It's odd people are saying this is a replacement to Craig'slist. However it's not nearly close, the site is pretty much solely for dating or no strings attached hookups but really the rules make it impossible to meet people let alone get messages. They flag any ad that isn't totally p. G even provocative pictures are forbidden. The messaging process is totally junk, sending messages to my own ad from my computer I didn't receive the message I sent my self. I think d. B should fall back.

Have been with Doublelist almost since their first month. While it has been a slow build in my area for users, it has grown exponentially since that day. I have met a few people from the site, like yes, Actual people, not 200 invites to some shady snapchat... I have seen that they are starting to add some payment to the account system, but what I can see, the cost is less than a single month for any other site, for a full year. I cant speak to "finding the one" on here as that is not what I am looking for, but I can confirm you can find actual people, most of which just want to have fun just like you.

I haven't made any connections here as of yet but if these ads are for real and are real people that want to $#*! them I am bound to get some sooner or later. Please let it be sooner. To bad there aren't too many women on here but that goes everywhere else. Just the way it is. If you are gay and looking for a man then you hit the jackpot lol. One thing that needs improvement is the ads should individually have a date or time on them so you can tell if it's an old ad not worth replying to or a fresh new ad that you better jump on it and try to get before some smooth talking stud snatches the person away

A guy answered my ad for some mutual BJ's on the DL about 5 minutes after I posted it. We chatted quite a bit. I had another buddy coming over that day that we;'ve been doing this for years.without our wives knowledge. So this guy that answered my ad agreed to come over before my buddy got here. So when my buddy arrived, there we were, ready to go. Things happend and went perfectly and my buddy said it was the best surprise he ever got. So there it is. I joined Doublelist last night, made my first post this morning and had somebody at my house for some good old fun less than 6 hours later. I've never seen another site work better. Absolutely perfect job guys, thank you!

Discovered this on someone's recommendation shortly after Craigslist stopped doing personals. It was very, very good for arranging hookups as an alternative to Craigslist at that time. It has since been somewhat inundated with trolls who both post & respond to the posts of others. My theory is that when Covid hit, before vaccines and more effective treatments were available, the serious people stopped posting and all of the trolls were home on furlough with nothing better to do than screw with the heads of the people seriously trying to hookup. Two years plus later, there's still a lot of that element on the site. That being said, I've not found a better alternative.