ButchFemmePlanet

Reading the previous reviews makes me wish i had read them before i joined BFP. All i can say is... that that place is ran by a foul mouthed tart who believes in bullying individuals if they dont share her point of view. And by view i mean... juvenile ideology about sexuality. They lack any respect for individuality. You MUST walk their walk... talk their talk. Or you are banished from the site. I was simply banned for having a different view about what turns people on... all i said was... that i find someone attractive who knows it without having to look like a slut. BANNED... all i can say is... the blind follows the blind. And... i will never lower my standards or views or opinions to simply fit in with a bunch of bullies... individuality will always win over bullies

I was a part of this community since 2008 before its name was changed to butch femme planet (Before then it was just Butch-Femme). I used to like going to this site but after its name was changed to butch femme planet things took a turn for the worst. This site claims to be accepting to masculine and FTM folks but it is not. There is a lot of hate to masculine females, trans men and butches. Even though the site claims to welcome them and includes a board for trans people.

The admins act like a bunch of drama fueled teenagers and will ban those who disagree or speak out against the things that they do wrong. The people who run this site DISGUST me. They are rude, spiteful and immature. If one person says something that could be misinterpreted then they get dog piled by arguments and singled out. The mods and admins don't put a stop to this, they join in. It got to the point where I complained because I was afraid to post in the forums. I was banned without warning or discussion though the people who argued with me and even threatened me did not see any repercussions for their actions.

It's a very nice place to socialize... just be nice and you'll have a great time meeting interesting people.

Awful people and cesspool of money hungry, greedy, discriminating, cruel, and drama inciting BULLIES.

I joined this supposed community in August of 2012 and in that time, have seen abhorrent behaviors exhibited by the administrator towards other members. These behaviors have included misappropriation of funds, mocking of members and reading private messages.

Great site for connecting with other butches and femmes. Admins are quick to ban the trolls and scammers. Only down side is the fact that a hater site makes fun of members on BFP, which makes it hard to keep posting there, but that isn't BFP's fault, it's the fault of those with grudges against the site.

I see lots of complaints about what they do with money. Do I care? No, it's their money. They are providing a service and if they want to charge for it and buy underwear, I don't care. My main concern is that it is often offline. Though I check on the is it down for all or just me and it says the site is up. But somehow it doesn't work for me. Most of the time it works but then it goes on blackout, can't connect for an entire week. Kinda of annoying. During that time, I have no problems connecting to other sites. It would be good if it had some consistency, but considering the costs of running a website and i imagine they don't make money, I guess it's okay.