Every time Matchmeetups send you a message it is a big bluff. They say it is free but in the end they tell you to get messages you must upgrade and pay. How stupid can a guy be to pay for these women who are all scams. These women send you a reply that they can be found oni mail. Org. IFyou go to imail.org you will find that they are scammers or in jail. These dating sites should be scrapped on e-mail sites. Please dont join and save your blood pressure from going up.

No it has nothing to do with what you are doing. What I can work out is it is a setup with some sexy looking girl (not sure if they know or not) to get you to join a few sites. I fell for the same thing now I don't believe in any site they all seam off. One or two sites I joined I had mail from girls to contact them until I did join then all of them were not members anymore. What I have done is find a local house pay for it and at least you see you get and go home.