No, there is absolutely no f-king solution, mate. This site is a joke its been working chaotically, no site administrator will ever answer your concerns; they just don't care; there is no accountability on their part towards anyone, and you have no recourse whatsoever after your profile gets virtually deleted all of a sudden (a few days after having it posted). I too, like many other man, have been going through this situation of a) getting 5 or 6 replies after posting my profile on the site and then b) getting the "surprise" of seeing my profile "temporarily unavailable" by their chaotic system, which means your profile has been virtually deleted and made out of public view. IT'S ALL TOO f-cking FAMILIAR...