@Andrew - thank you so much - now we are at least 2.

I spent over a decade in China and have nothing to say other than "this kind of operations" are not 100%, but 101% scam.

They know exactly how "Dumb" Westerners are and how much many Westerners admire Asian ladies. Bingo!
Their money machines are running at high speed!

Scam multiplied by itself a dozen times!

What makes it worse, Westerner seem to not educate themselves enough and keep running into their rhetorically and more so "pictorial" traps" These Chinese fraudsters are not alone, though. They get help from crook Westerners living there, too. Hence, this becomes a very successful, profitable SINO cooperation scam.

Did you join their Weddings? How did you know they actually found each other in CHNLOVE? I was send to China for 5 years bu my company, I encounter Scams that never have I encounterd in US or my life time, they are professional, if you read Chinese, I can send you an advertisement of how they put good rating for sites that pay you money to write good comments! Over there you have to double your brain juice to see if it is true or not, 95% are fakes, even the name brands they wear and carry are Fake Name Brands, well at least they make it pretty good, but not useable in long time!