Since of the 1,000+ messages I've received on this site (with an empty profile of just my name and country) have all been how my profile moved them, and they introduce themselves as my furlture wife, etc. I don't believe I've ever interacted with a legitimate prospective relationship partner.

I lost count of how many messages I received,

I have no idea what they agree to, but I've noticed if I don't log in for 3 months, the messages taper off. They all seem like the same message, not quite the same, but similar.

Also, when I, with my blank profile sign into te site, I get 4-8 chat requests in under 2 minutes. "Hi can I be your affectionate lady?" "May I ask u a personal question" "do you let me stay with u, I will do anything you asked to do for u. (With2 big kisses)"

Accepting a chat costs credits. Every message contains multiple pictures (anything after the first picture costs credits to open). To reply to a message costs credits. To read a subsequent message from a sender costs credits. Credits cost money. And somehow EVERY woman is a lovely woman, built to model specifications.

I wouldn't be surprised that there are legitimate women looking for someone, but they are buried under layers of spam.

I would agree. The spam is insane and the girls don't always know / comprehend what is happening.

However, I did get lucky. A girl i was chatting with worked with me to get an email exchange across via video. And after 2 days of fixing the email issues (China blocks google) we were able to get a QQ connection set up and we now chat 2-3 hours every morning and every night. (sometimes with voice and also video chat)

We're now talking about meeting in person early next year. I know that is the exception and I got lucky.

They will never tell you the actual agreement. As I said in my original post, I am sure there is some agreement but I cannot honestly say I know what it is. It is carefully guarded. Some of the older ones may be free but they way they work is to generate endless revenue. You need to use your best judgment and profit from the experience of others like myself. Try different sites, even free sites like Plenty of Fish or Match.com where you can search on your own. At least get something with an inexpensive set fee and where you can establish contact on your own very quickly.

This is indeed a bogus site. I have been foolish enough to have paid for this understanding. Chinalovematch.net is legit! Your chatting on line via Skype, qq, wechat or whatever your preference in minutes. The photos are not doctored and you'll get to see them live anyway. Unlimited everything is $139/year but you can try it out for much less and don't need the site after a month or so depending how long it takes you. In one month you could easily cull through hundreds of prospective woman and have the direct access to the ones you want to spend more time knowing.

Let's face it. Most of the pictures are most likely stolen off Internet or from people who sell photos. What is real is these women don't exist. Just a bunch of goons taking people for a ride. The site is a big scam.

Totally agree with Scott B.

There is one more thing to add however. There is a layer of interpreters that is placed between you and the woman. Their sole purpose is to solicit interest and to act on behalf of the woman at all times. You do NOT get to chat with a real woman, ever, unless you spend the money and make a call (I'm quoting from their site), but I'm not stupid enough to spend that kind of money when I can't even chat with them on the internet. No personal email or chat information is ever given out.

Scott B said it all