TODAY

Message boards have been completely ruined. Everyone has been run off, traffic is not 10% what it was 6 months ago. You get 3 strikes and you're banned forever, with no recourse. And what constitutes grounds for a strike is often ridiculous and random. Childish favoritism prevails.

After spending months making connections and contributing to the community, with hundreds of posts that get a lot of hits (keeping traffic on their site to see the ads, to bring in their revenue) you will be dumped as fast as you can snap your fingers. Attempts to reach a supervisor are simply ignored. If you push it, they will ban your IP address. Members are not valued at all and it shows in how nobody goes there any more. Even that does not make them take a hint so I don't know, maybe they want it to fail...

They continue to allow their silly low level help to permanently ban their most valuable members. When they got a new head moderator (whatever they're called) many of the moderators left too. Now she just starts her own threads and answers them herself too, lol. As if the complete fumble of their new format attempt wasn't bad enough.

It used to be a great site to discuss issues of friends, family, work, sex, relationships, everything really. What a shame.