It's not a good idea to join! After a messy sign up process and providing too much information for a simple dating service you are being introduced to 95% fake accounts. The reply rate is very low regardless of how well thought-out your letters are. I had better luck on http://J4Love.net where I met the woman I'm going to marry. She is a true Christian with strong family values. Just what I was looking for on CatholicMatch!

If you are not sure them grow up and meet people in real life. Get off of internet dating and get a spine.

I met many ladies on this site and I am just a average looking guy without even having a college degree. I used this site for 3 active years before I got one of these women to be my girlfriend. It takes a little patience sometimes. Most the complaints on here (not counting the ones regarding accounts being terminated and refunds, which i have no experience with) sound like the complaints of cry babies. The site is not a miracle worker. You have to get turned down a lot before you get someone interested in you. You cant expect your dream girl when you yourself think you deserve only the best and wont settle for less. Be realistic and patient and do not seem like a complete socially awkward, entitled little girly man cry baby and you should do fine!