Not all that is said about this site is true. Granted you do have your opportunistic individuals out there. But frankly, every culture does. Just use common sense and be honest with the individual you are communicating with. I have met the love of my life on this website, and I thank God for this everyday. We have been together for over a year and it has not been easy for either of us with figuring out the distance, and difficulties with dating someone from another country across the globe. But it can work and I can tell you, when you find this person, it is with all the effort. So don't be frustrated with some failures or heart breaks. Be confident and strong and move forward. Love will find you, or you will find it. But you need to try and be open to things that aren't within your comfort zone. Good luck