Tom C.

It looks like the dregs of society have assembled on POF. Most are broken women, overweight, single mums, unemployed or lowly paid jobs and with huge psychological issues thinking they are superior to you and with some utopian view of themselves. Narcissisim, abruptness and rudeness is on another level. They seem to demand a tall, mega-rich Brad Pitt lookalike on a dating site. As if a guy like that would need a dating site. In return they offer unflattering silly poutish pictures of themselves covered in tatoos like you're watching the Rocky Horror show with a description (if they've bothered) littered with typos.

You'll find very few well educated, professional women on there.

As with most sites now there is a dwindling supply of genuine people. Most women on SA seem to come from low income jobs such as beauticians/hairdressers or are students or nutcases and will try to scam as much money out of you and viciously abuse you if things don't go their way. I was asked for £300 just for a social coffee meet! I laughed back. They treat you as if they're doing you a favour and are standing as a beacon of morality.

There are however some genuinely nice, well mannered girls on there but finding them is like wading through a minefield. The place has now become littered with escorts and eastern european girls.