I joined POF, and started using the site. Was supprised at how I almost immediately started receiving people want to meet me emails and massages. Most of the messages I received said the same thing Hey there, how are you :) First sign of scam.
I responded with 2 women, even received email notifications that they had responede to my message, but low and behold, their meaasges were not there, all others that I received or sent but did not get a response to were visible but not the ones I was communicating with. I couldnt even see the messages I sent to them, seems as soon as I responded to a message the system would block me access to those messages only, I suspect to get me to pay more or upgrade.
Typical for these sites, Fake people sending fake messages only to get you to pay more. I wish I knew where the servers were located so I could rip them out.
I made them cancel my accound and refund me, this all happened in 12hours.
Such a scam, in my opinion.