I've been on POF for about 5 months and have have alot dates. Alot of the men just want sex but was willing to wine and dine to do so. Had alot of good meals but no real connection. Alot of scumbags for sure but that's life. Some say they live near you when they really are contract workers and only visiting. Meet alot of guys that want you for an uber driver. Decided to give it one last try when I meet the love of my life. So it's not so bad just have to be mindful. Some people lie very well. Happy fishing.