Simon H.

I have been on Tagged for years, but have gone from using it regularly to barely using it at all! Firstly, the option to search for someone using parameters (area, age, etc) might as well not be there, as the same people constantly appear, who are 150 miles away and are NOT within the age range that you specified. I contacted Tagged "Customer Services" about this a couple of times, and on a positive note they replied quickly both times. However, they might as well not have bothered replying at all, as both times they said that they'd checked and it "seemed to be working OK". In what reality was that then? Also, the site is heavily bug-ridden, causes various issues (including crashing the browser on occasion) and slowing your laptop / PC. The only positive thing that I can say is that I've met a few women off there who have been genuine and local, and have also made a few friends. However, there ARE a lot of scammers, links to webcam / porn sites masquerading as messages or friend requests, liars, psychos and broken people who do not know who they want. There rarely seems to be anyone on there, and you tend to get people sending you a friend request after chatting for a while. Then, after you add them their replies will be a quick "yes" or "OK thanks" and you just know that they've already moved onto their next "friend request". You can then safely assume that all they wanted in the first place was to feed their already overinflated egos by adding to their friends list, thus making themselves appear much more important and desirable than, in fact, they are. To get back to the site itself, the "meet me" suffers from EXACTLY the same issue as the "search / browse" function, meaning that you'll see people from 200 miles away, wrong age group, etc. Not a very good website at all, but there are far, far worse out there (see the reviews of POF on here, which I have also contributed to). Avoid unless you want to be bored out of your mind or like having a non user-friendly joke of a site to chat to people on... if you can find anyone to talk to. I suspect that many of the profiles that appear in the "search" or "meet me" functions no longer exist, the users long since having abandoned the site.

I totally agree with many of the comments on here about POF. I had a profile on there a couple of years ago, and pride myself on being polite and friendly to all. Then one day my profile had just disappeared for no reason! About a week or so before that, some girl had accused me of not being single (just because I wasn't on there 24/7) and I politely told her that I WAS single. The only thing that I can think of is that she reported me for "not being single" and my profile was deleted! Several e-mails to the Fuhrer (sorry, Frind) and the "customer service" e-mail address went unanswered, so I moved on. I have recently had another profile, but I see that men are NOT allowed to post shirtless pics anymore, whilst women can post pictures of themselves in their underwear or bikini. I had a message from Hitler (sorry, Frind) stating that my main picture MUST show my face, and they had "kindly" swapped my main pic for one of the others. I was also told that this would be my "only" warning. However, my original main pic DID show my face, so I decided to try an experiment, and clicked "Report user if main pic does not show their face" on a woman's profile which regularly appeared. This just showed her legs and her high heels. The profile stayed the same, so I reported it again, but STILL it was there! The only thing that I can think of is that some bimbos that I hadn't replied to (as I wasn't interested in their arrogant, narcissistic profiles) had clicked on the "Report user if main pic does not show their face" link. Being a man, I had then received the "warning" (oooh, I'm trembling, Mr Nazi Frind) even though - as I mentioned earler - my main pic DID show my face. Anyway, as of today my profile has been deleted (again for no reason). It is probably another case of "disturbed" female users reporting me for pathetic, untrue reasons (due to my ignoring their messages) and POF being the man-hating, feminist-friendly, anti-male crap that it is did not even bother to check, but just deleted my profile! OK, Herr Frind... stick your rubbish site where the Sun doesn't shine, because I won't be back! Whilst I have chatted with some nice women on there, most are either full of themselves, mirror posers, psychos and absolute nutters. Heinrich Frind has also stopped men from contacting women with more than a fourteen year age gap. How typically arrogant of "The Creator" to dictate to male users who they can contact, let alone what they can say. Yes, there are lots of perverts out there (some of them are male) but why should ALL men have to pay the price for these? And why should women be elevated to the status of goddesses, so that they can simply report someone that they either don't like (or who has dared NOT to reply to their messages) and get that person's profile deleted? There is a link asking users what they think POF should do with the profile of the person that they are reporting, and part of this is to delete the profile (and I can guarantee that a male reporting a female will NEVER be listened to). It seems that Frind and his staff HATE men, and consider them all to be perverts/liars/rapists. With this in mind, men... do you really want to give your time and/or money to a site that thinks that of you? Many (once standard) features on the site now are paid-for features (such as hiding your profile, etc). My question is this:- why would you give your money to these anti-male, Nazi thought-police? After all, they could just delete your profile when some sad pathetic loser decides to report you for nothing at all apart from not replying to her... and would you get a refund? I'm not sure on that one, but I wouldn't be surprised if the answer is a resounding "no". **AVOID THIS SITE LIKE THE PLAGUE**

(Finally... personally, I wouldn't even give POF one star, but there doesn't seem to be an option on here to give none).