I am a Gold and VIP member for more than one year. During my membership I met many women and one couple. Despite the average Saphrina user I am not married. I am a single guy in his 30s who discovered that married frustrated women are a better target for no strings attached fun.
Let me give you some useful advice. The average woman on Saphrina seems to be 40+ and is totally frustrated with her life and marriage. The feel lonely even if they are not. Their husbands don't pay attention to them anymore. No compliments, no little surprises, no SMS, no flowers. I guess you get the idea. Here is your key to success. Give them the feeling that they are special and sexy. Don't do the same mistake their husbands do and take them for granted. With every message you send try to be the perfect charming gentlemen. And don't be cheap. Don't suggest a date in a cheap motel but invite them to a nice and fancy dinner first. Dress well, behave nicely, open the door of your car, help her in and out her coat. Give them all they desire and give them what they are missing so badly.