I've been on Zoosk twice, for 6 months each time. Met a lot of really great people on there, including my boyfriend of 7 months. We are living together and things are great! My suggestion is to give a discount to people who have been on the site for 6 months or more. And a word of encouragement to others out there... hang in there, this does work! Stay positive and don't be so picky that you can't enjoy the ride. I'm still friends with a few that I met in the past, we just didn't work out as a couple.