I met a guy and I talked with him for almost 2 years and suddenly he disappeared and ended up a spent a lot of money and I will never know if he was real. I don't understand why, they do exactly what the other dating site do. They should charge one fee and you can talk as much you want. They say the fee is for the employees to check on the members, this is bullcrap. My male friend signed up and nobody never asked him for anything and they never asked me either. It is not worth it, there is nothing special on this dating site. They are going to take all your money like they did to me. Be careful Big No