I have tried this site a couple of times and it is just not worth it. I am sure there are some quality older men out there, but they sure in the heck aren't on Our Time. I have sent out dozens of messages, and heard back from ONE MAN. ONE! And he is not someone I would be interested in. Very discouraging. I am paid up through April but will not be renewing. Save your money and avoid the frustration! You would have better luck meeting a man at the grocery or hardware store.