Samantha J.

I tried a few online dating websites last year and this is the one that Ive been using most. I got divorced just over a year ago and my advice to anyone using the site is to take things slowly. You get a lot of offers in a short time and if your like me you want to give people a chance. But it can be quite overwhelming if you still have feelings for your previous partner. After some pretty terrible dates I was more selective with the men I met with and did a lot more messaging than meeting. Thats worked well as its given me time to get to know the people I was in contact with and build a relationship of sorts, before actually going for coffee or the theater or whatever. Im now enjoying the site more than ever and theres one man Ive met a few times recently who really seems perfect. One step at a time, not getting my hopes up, but the site does what I need it to, just take things slow and dont feel you have to go on lots of dates if you arent ready!