I used chnlove and rosematch and I noticed how these women were eager to chat. The biggest scam was how the women claim they need to chat or send messages for months and months before considering meeting in-person. When I said that we only need a month or two maximum before meeting, they say it is too fast because they were not easy women. I think if they were really interested, they would want to meet. Afterall, I would come to their home turf, so there is nothing for her to worry about. If I was living in China and met them in-person, out-of-the-blue, in their city, they wouldn't say "wait! Let's write to each other first to see if I get a feeling for you". Of course that sound ridiculous but that's what they want to make you think they'd be interested at some point in the future. But in the meantime, you're dishing out big bucks for a fantasy. I think the women get some sort of monetary compensation or credit just to keep a guy hooked for endless months to build up their personal bank account and a cut of the proceeds for the website.