robin w.

I came to this site for several years and then stopped because it became so toxic. I thought I would try again after being gone and within 10 minutes of signing into the lounge this is the conversation I saw today 4/12/22 with time stamps:

12:15:05Depressedkween Omg men are stupid
12:15:05Arapaima396 Noice
12:15:16lifeless Daniela1: yup
12:15:21Depressedkween Men are mass shooters
12:15:28Guest*******?
12:15:31Arapaima396 Yes we are but its rude to point out the obvious
12:15:38 * SneakyWeasel shoots up the room
12:16:01Depressedkween I'm so nice wdym
12:16:01Arapaima396 Oh fer cryin out loud...
12:16:22Sebas pm anyone
12:16:38frenchsoap hi Angel

Despite the presence of several moderators and room assistants no one said anything. Imagine for a moment what would happen if a guy said all women are stupid and baby killers/mass shooters or whatever. That person would be kicked and banned (I hope).

This is a site where people come for emotional support and many things trigger an emotional reaction. I'm sure some people will say "it was just a joke". But this is exactly what all sociopaths say when you point out their bad behavior - and this site has more than its fair share of sociopaths who fly under the radar because the moderators and assistants at this site have no mental health training whatsoever.

Once again my vote is to avoid this site at all costs.