I have used this app on and off for four yrs but it's gotten so bad and have no desire to use again. I would not show my face on my profile bec of so many creeps. The first messages are usually down right nasty telling u what they want to do to u sexually. I would just delete them and try and find decent people to chat with. It's just not a healthy app especially for women. A lot of guys asking u to watch them, talk sex so they can do their thing, or asking to come over to hang out. Dating site, whatever in the last 4 months of trying it again, not one single guy asked me out. They complain about not a lot of real women, these perverts chase them off. Used to meet a few nice guys from there but now it's really just full of nasty creepy guys.