I've been on it for two weeks. Received some "likes", 9/10 ratings, and permission to ask for a date from several members (these are all push-button responses), but I have not received even one actual written message from any member. Most of the profiles have something that gives them away like the person is 6'2" and 100 lbs. or it's a picture of a super-hot 30 year old, when the person is supposed to be 45. There are some that seem real but I think are stolen from other sites. They try to hook you into paying for VIP status so you can see who agreed to date you, and see who else they liked. Like a chump I fell for it thinking there were several women who wanted to date me. So i paid the money only to never get an actual response from them. No one has asked me for money so i think the main purpose is to keep you clicking on profiles and updating the advertising that comes up. The site is probably making millions on the number of clicks.