Intrusive staff who monitor all conversation, private or not, for any mention of competitors and then ban them. Their software is over ten years old and ridiculously unreliable, inefficient and slow. Their number of active members is pitifully small both relative to their claims and to the herpes population in general. There is no way to interact with people you are interested in without paying. This site is a blight on the herpes community and the administrators are greedy, punitive, short-sighted and ridiculously over-invested in the tiny community they maintain, seemingly for their own gratification rather than helping others.
It's a waste of time.