First question, what are you passionate about. I have a paragraph. The ones that I am matched to, barely a complete sentence. One was most passionate about "stuff". Not many have taken the questionnaire, which make me question how do they do the compatibility?
Of those, many of which are way outside my commute range. (If you live in a metropolitan area, you will understand that 20 miles in a straight line is not 20 miles)
The one person I met on this go around, was definitely outside of what I was looking for.
I also did the 3 month stuck with it, to find that in the third month, no contacts, smiles or anything. For over $200, I may have had greater expectation.
Dear Rick, thank you for your feedback. Please know that the first thing every registered member takes is the Relationship Questionnaire which is the primary means of matching. I believe you're referring to the Q&A section from within each matches profile. That is an optional section which is just one more way for matches to get to know each other, it has no bearing on matching. We do try to encourage members to create full profiles, some people have a hard time writing about themselves and there always some people who just aren't as invested. If you do find a profile that's not as complete, you can use that as a way to break the ice and ask them more information about that missing or sparse section. Regarding distance In order to establish what matches fall within your distance preference, we start from the center of your zip code, measure to the center of your match’s zip code, and use this parameter as the straightest distance. In other words, if you live on the far edge of your zip code and your matches live on the opposite far edge for their zip codes, it is possible that your matches might be slightly farther away than you expect. If you'd like to discuss this or any other concerns, please email us at membercare@eharmony.com from the email on your account.