Zoosk is a scam, plain & simple. Not just because you have to eventually pay if you find someone worthwhile. But there's plenty of decoy/fake accounts made by the Zoosk site to lure men into upgrading. When you finally upgrade and try to communicate you find out it's a decoy, (there's not really a pretty girl behind it). I thought I'd test the waters & insult several of these girls after not getting responses. What happened next proved my theory. I received winks from those phony accounts. Unbelievable! STAY WAY PEOPLE FROM THIS SITE! It's a ripoff. Also, if you sign up for a month only, make sure you cancel it before it's up or else they'll keep charging you until you do so. Another scam method by these crooks.