Nobody A.

I was a member of this site some years ago. I attended a get-together with a number of other members and, during my flight home (I live on the other side of nowhere) something changed on the site. When I questioned the change, I was summarily banned. What followed was a really long discussion replete with comments by MH, DS and their minions that I had been warned by private messages about my posts -- which of course was a blatant lie. None of the admins/mods had ever contacted me privately at all, about anything. Following this episode, many people whom I had met at the GTG, and some whom I had not met but had protested, were also banned.

My takeaway is that you have to be prepared to kiss the asses of the owners/admins/mods of the site. If you do, you are golden. If you don't, you are out.

More objectively -- I still occasionally look at the site (I'm a writer, gathering material for a novel, lol). It is skewed toward those in "Reconciliation" i. E. willing to put up with all kinds of $#*!e... over and over again. Read the tag lines and listing of "D-days". It' a celebration when a "wayward" supposedly "gets it," whatever that means. On the other hand, there are so many bitter people there who delve into armchair psychology that it is literally sickening.

If you come across this site and are seriously looking for support, run and don't look back. Unless of course, you need fodder for your novel.