nate b.

I avoided this site for a long time due to price. However, I happened to run into a ‘deal' on the site that put it on par with others. I took it. (Also discovered that depending on search engine, price was different) I should add that I am male seeking male. Could be different for different people.

I have found:
1)The format and sign up process is same as a couple of other sites.

2)Takes forever to get profile "out of review". I finally called about 3 weeks after initiating-they still haven't corrected for one thing, my age. This call was early Jan, ‘21. It is late March, ‘21. Also have a couple of changes from about four weeks ago still "in review".

3)Attempts to alter wording to better reflect myself have been rejected because it didn't read the way their ‘suggestion' did. (Which totally missed the point).

4)Many of the match suggestions don't have profile photos. A lot are totally inappropriate.

5)And like other sites, a message came up saying I was setting my preferences too strict when I indicated I absolutely can't tolerate a smoker. I take that to mean that I won't get as many suggested matches.

I wasn't fooled by the initial personality question stuff-I did it anyway. Perhaps that is the basis of getting these matches without anything else in common. Great—I could be sitting and cuddling in front of T. V. 365 nights a year with someone that is disciplined like myself!

Nothing nasty here, but very disappointing. Keep expectations low, and hunt for competitive price and find out for yourself. The sites seem to draw from the same pot.

My opinion is that this is another piece of trash way for someone to make money. In comparison of 'dating sites' a few months ago, Consumer Reports had this rated among the best. Guess they missed it this time. I've been on this site for 'bout 7 months.

I've had about 3 (maybe) appropriate matches-with long waits in between for ANY matches. I went 2000 miles to meet someone-turns out he had already met someone but didn't want to mess up my trip. We had a very nice time anyway. (no-not a hook-up thing). I've had a few uncomfortable communications with matches-what disturbed me is that this person I went to meet, and his hopeful as well, had similar uncomfortable communication with these same people.

I rated it average. Average isn't good! It means it's like the other sites that are worthless. Oh Well! I probably am done with 'dating sites'. Good luck. Too bad piano bars went out!