This is a good place to find help. As noted in other reviews there are some issues with some chatters and with moderators. The option to ignore anyone who is bothersome exists - the ignore feature. It's a good feature. We're all there with our own mental health issues so of course we're going to clash. Ignore is the only way to find some peace and I'm happy site has the option.
As for the moderators: they are volunteers who are also chatters. They are not perfect. They try. They put up with a lot, including some chatters who were rightfully banned stalking them and threatening their lives and the lives of their families.
Rules are posted that are to be read prior to entering site. Many chatters don't even read them and then get defensive and abusive when the moderators try to enforce the rules. Their "buddies" then team together to fight the moderators.
In my opinion:
Forever - best moderator who gets a lot of hate because she does try to ensure site rules and chatter safety.
Jameson - decent moderator who will help chatters and listens to you if you are decent to her.
Cally - super sweet, caring, helpful
Tranquilspirit - not overly active, but no issues with so far
Swamptoast - not overly active, but the few interactions I've had were satisfying
Parzival - takes frequent breaks from chat, but when he is moderating seems to want to help
There are two moderators I avoid completely whenever possible - Southerngent and bros
Southerngent has been kind and helpful at times and mean at times. The meanness is why I avoid him; you never know which you're going to get.
Bros seemed okay, but he misses a lot. There was trolling going on, these two or three chatters would set chatters they didn't like up. When the chatters responded after being harassed they would bring it to bros attention. Bros then muted the targeted chatter. Every single time. This went on nightly when there were no other mods available. He's either biased or his gaming while in chat makes it so he can't make good calls.
Both Southerngent and Bros will out chatters in room and instead of taking it to pm they will argue with the chatter right in room, which is disruptive, something we're asked to not be.
Honestly if you go this site and follow the rules, don't argue with the moderators, ignore the trolls, use the ignore feature, and avoid the moderators you clash with it goes well in Healthfulchat.