I have been a member for a couple years. I think considering the amount of content that it is really good. Those who are complaining - maybe have the wrong expectations! Personally, I would really not to expect to meet my new wife! It is more a browsing opportunity and one can meet someone but it is hit or miss. No different than going to a bar! HOw many time have we all gone there and spent money and met nobody? If you like a site with a lot of content - it is great! My only criticism is that the video feeds get real slow and start n stop at busier times.
Actually after a few more months, I believe I should add a bit more... in terms of content from members it is second to none. Their biggest problems are their technical computer problems. Their servers clearly cannot keep up with the demand. The members videos almost never play through without starting and stopping - many times they won't play at all! It is a real problem, and when they are contacted they run you through a cleverly thought out program of checking every possible thing on your computer. I have used a half dozen computers on their site and they all have they same problem. 'Truthfully, if I could find a web site with similar content but less computer problems, I would switch.