It started with the type of payee POF set itself up as in my Paypal account. An automatic, self-renewing, payee. Once I realized what they had done I immediately removed them, but if I hadn't carefully read the emails I wouldn't have known. Then the made-up messages started coming in, when I responded to the first few I was met with huh? Or nothing, because those people had never messaged me. And the lurking men... Why not just get on a straight dating site? Honestly, my online POF experience has just made me feel like a loser. And, no refund.