I'm glad I quit it. I found a legit site J4Dating.com -they still work honestly in this shady dating industry and they have real profiles of genuine women. If it doesn't scare you away that most of these women are from Eastern Europe, go ahead for it!
My efforts were rewarded and I met my bride there, that's why I recommend it.
Having lost plenty of time and money on Ourtime and other sites I realize that it's very difficult to find anyone real there. It's important to use your common sense and just quit it!
If you haven't started using it yet, don't enter this ghost city with absolutely no activity. They have tons of fake profiles, you can contact anyone - but you won't get any response.
At first you get lots of views, likes and messages - that is all happening before you pay and it all comes from bots. So don't get your hopes up!