I had a LOT of matches, many good looking men, I wrote very many details of what I want, hiking, biking, outdoors, enjoy life, music,... many men barely put anything, yet they matched high with me, that made zero sense. They just wrote how they are a nice and honest man looking for love of their life... the not good looking men sent me "smiles", I sent smiles (to connect) to the handsome ones I thought had the most in common with me. I think I'm pretty and smart and have a good profile. None of the men responded. Then within the same day, 2 sent me a message. They wanted my contact information quickly which I found odd and invasive. Then they would never talk about them. One called me Sweetie very soon, both ironically were divorced because their wives cheated on them. I mentioned scam and one guy disappeared... the other I mentioned scam and he just said "do you not want to continue with what we have going?" We had nothing going, he was boring, only exercised and worked. I couldn't get him to say anything he liked. No real chatting. But, to hear nothing from the handsome guys... that didn't make sense. I paid upfront $106 and got refunded $42 and canceled. I think they want to hook you into staying longer. But I think that is mean and bad business. They still made money off of me.