I've been at Allpoetry on and off for over 15 years. It's not pay to post... you read and comment others. It's not full of bullies... you have a choice whether to socialise or not. You also have the option to block people. 90% are egotists throwing false praise around like candy, cosied up in their little cliques. But 10% are honest nurturers who are happy to help others grow.
I began as an amateur and through the honesty of others and my own hard work, I'm now a professional poet who mentors many.
Yes, Kevin is a pain in the backside. And yes, he owns the website, and no, he isn't the best poet... but he gave poets a platform to have their voice and be heard. It is your choice to pay or not. Same as it's your choice to tell blatant lies here. But just remember - it takes more than a man and his pocket to build a community.