So I mark on my profile "Christian" and I'm sent more "spiritual not religious" as compatible. Are you serious? Worshipping the devil can be spiritual or witch craft also. I'm paired up with guys 15 younger or 20 years older. What a joke. And I do not smoke so don't give me guys that do. Really. I'm not traveling more miles then I put in my profile but too many too far away. Wished I would have read the reviews before signing up.
Dear Karen, my name is Scott and I'm sorry to hear your experience hasn't been what we would all hope for. Please know that we are a site open to members of all Faiths. All members can control which Faiths they are matched with by choosing specific ones and by setting the Importance. If you have the importance set to anything other than "very", then you are allowing the system flexibility to look outside that particular setting. So for your Religion, Age and Smoking preferences, if you have strict requirements, then I'd recommend you set the importance to "very". If you'd like any further help with your settings or any other issues, please email us at membercare@eharmony.com from the email address associated with your account.