For me, this was money well spent. I'm Looking forward to seeing where this goes. I was really a little overwhelmed with all the attention I was getting. I got to chat a lot. Most were very nice chats. One date I considered spelled out what he wanted. Some girls are into drive bys, I wasn't and the date didn't go any farther. I appreciated the honesty. I am a person who's happiest in a relationship. I realized this about myself going into the site. For God's sake be honest with yourself about what you want and those that think your worth the time will gladly meet the bar you set. You might have to sort through a few profiles/men but not all of them are just looking for a one night stand. This type of site gave me opportunities to meet or chat with a lot of men. It takes the guess work out of who is avaiable or even interested in going out with you. It should keep you occupied and certainly entertained. This doesn't mean you won't be naughty if your into that which I can be but I am selective about who sees that side of me. I would recommend Steve Harvey's "Act like a lady, Think like a man" to understand the power a woman holds in relationships before moving forward. Good Luck Ladies, it is worth the effort. I did meet a very nice guy. We live together now and he is everthing I wanted and then some. It does happen... even to me.