just h.

Sure. You find a community you think you can escape the stigma and back in the dating pool. Wrong... You're better off finding a facebook site. I've had better luck just using conventional sites and being honest.

Pro:
Very few dating sites of its type.

Con:
The terms are basically they will take all of your information and distribute it across their other dating sites. (This site is owned by a controlling company that has these and other sites like it.) Look it up. Fact.

They start off free. Gather a large enough database to populate a non-existant user/community. Then go for pay for everything and use these profiles to lure people into thinking they are in a live community.

These sites should be shut down and lawsuits filed. This is blatant manipulation and baiting.

The chat system is pretty broken. You get the typical fake and scam users. (only benefit is they can't contact you really either. Though they lure you into it with social winks for you to pay and contact them...)

Then the moderators who try to keep the site looking like it is active and removing user comments that show otherwise.

I know personally and has paid for this service.