I am a semi-active user of this site at the moment. I usually go on for a few months then take a break for a while and alternate as such. Yes there are many people that talk sexually to eachother, but most kids in the chat site's range are looking for that. Horny kids are getting on late at night to talk to their vampire boyfriends. It can have a lot of creepy, gross, annoying, and outright freaky people, but I have found many people that have become good friends to me. So, the basic rules are as follows: If you are a guy, you are pretty much safe from anything just as long as you can withstand the occassional troll. Girls, if you join, you are going to have a lot of horny boys trying to come after you. Just talk to them as giving a chance, but if you become uncomfortable, just block them. I see negative and posative in this site. My main positive is a personal experience when I was 12 years old that set my life on the track that it is on now. The girl I talked to a lot just totally $#*!ed with my mind and of course we never stayed together since it was so long-distanced, but the trauma it put me through made me open-minded, understanding, matured, and it led me to the job I am currently studying for. Because of so many pedophiles and other illegal actions that take place on the site, I am studying to become a Computer Forensics Specialist, which is basically a computer cop. I will monitor the internet and find illegal transactions, chat sessions, and other alike things. So, in conclusion: the site really does a number on your mind and changes you, but it can be a great life experience to shape your future.