John D.

I did some online research about Columbia as a country, and it's progress. I then started watching videos and reading reports about its women. The reviews about the women were in the big cities were mixed. It appears the social media THOT culture has infected Latin America. Reality series like "90 Day Fiance" have convinced attractive Colombian women that they can hit the citizenship, sugar baby, financial jackpot by meeting an American online.

I created one profile with a random photo of an average looking adult male and listed my age as 45. I got 14 messages and 6 likes within the first 48 hours. Then over the following 4 weeks, a total of 29 messages and 12 likes. The woman ranged in ages from 21-55. Several looked like obvious prostitutes, wannabe sugar babies, and Instagram thots. Most of the messages had the exact same content and started out with the same intro. I was smart enough not to pay for premium memebrship, so I could not read the messages. But, I could see the first word, and I could count the letters, length of sentences, the number of paragraphs, and most were exactly the same! What are the chances? This means: The website is using bots to initiate conversations to entice you to pay for a premium membership. Or the women send out the same copy and paste, cookie-cutter messages to see what thirsty idiot will bite? Or maybe both?

A month later, I opened up another account with a more attractive, fit, younger photo of another man. This time aged 39. That profile received 37 messages and 14 likes in 24 hours! Many of the same women, the exact same messages.

I had seen enough, and I went to delete my profile. ColombianCupid does NOT give you the option of deleting your profile. You can only "hide" your profile. When I wrote to them and asked them how to delete my profile. I got this automated email response:

"Dear member,
Thank you for contacting us.
If you wish to permanently remove your profile, please reply this email to advise us the reason and we will do it for you. Please note that if you have an existing paying membership, you will lose the unused membership time on your account if you choose to permanently remove your profile."

What nerve! You have been warned!

"Just walk away... No one has to die!"
-Humungus (The Road Warrior - 1981)