I just read these reviews after I purchased the dating software. I was worried about it at first. So just crossed my fingers and tried it install the software myself. The installation was quite easy although there's no one-click installer. Website is setup immediately (I updated dns with my hosting before hand), but it took me a few tries to figure out the path on my server. Once it's setup, everything works like it's described. CMS only works for new pages you created, not default pages like home page or search. I have to edit the html if I want to change the content of default pages. Well, for $99, I think it's worth my money, can't compare to $499 software, but it's got all the bells and whistles I need to build a decent dating website. Do I recommend datingsitebuilder? Yes, but it's not for everyone, only those who know a little bit of html, css, and php/mysql. I think the hosted service might be easier to work with especially for internet dummies, but I have not tried that. Good luck!