I did find the love of my life on this site. But it took a few chats to get to her. I was completely honest and provided a truly accurate and extensive profile of myself... blemishes and all. I waited for responses that seemed sincere and that actually seemed like they read my profile. I chatted with a few who seemed either unsure, scamming, or flakey. But with a little patience I did finally meet my future bride... honest, sweet, and interested in having a real relationship.
So my advice is use the tools given to Broadcast who you really are and what you are looking for... don't embellish. The sincere ones will see you for who you are and will find you.