HotOrNot is utter drivel. I date a girl from http://J4Date.com now. It was fairly easy to meet her there, because the site is honest enough and they actually do something to deter scammers from abusing their site. Unlike HotorNot they have some sort of screening and profile verification, at least for women's profiles. Women don't have to pay anything, but they have to provide their id's, links to their social media, etc. HotorNot managers don't care about the integrity of their site and its reputation that's why it turned into a garbage bin with money-hungry thieves and con artists. These scammers will tell you any kind of lie just to keep you hooked. My advise is not to spend a dime on this site unless you like to be milked for money by different scammers worldwide.