Jahnae S.

At first I loved this website, then I went on the forum and oh my goodness... I simply posted and asked for opinions about wearing a tiara in my royal themed castle wedding. What I got were a few nice responses and one cranky woman in particular who would not quit. "Are you royalty?" (If you cannot see the sarcasm in that, like the WW admins didn't, then get your eyes checked) "Ya well if you aren't royalty it just looks like a childish sweet 16 party" when I asked why she was being so harsh and why not just give me the advice she goes "It's a public forum, I can say what I want". I flagged a number of her responses, and at one point felt like I had to shut her up because the admins weren't doing anything! MY RESPONSES WERE REMOVED! And other women who agreed that the rude woman was being catty, THEIR COMMENTS WERE REMOVED! One simply stated "I don't know why people feel the need to be so negative and nasty here" and then went on to discuss the topic, and HER COMMENT GOT REMOVED! Meanwhile, the rude woman still had all her comments on there.
I am convinced that there is a group of unhappily married, just plain nasty, or old and bitter women and they just like to go on the attack. It was like being in high school! And seeing the other comments on here makes me happy, because I know I am not alone. You cannot convince me that the admins are not biased.
They say they check out every "flagged" response and compare it to their "strict guidelines" but wow, what failure to enforce an "anti bullying policy". Now, here comes the typical response from an admin, saying they carefully check everything, they look at the guidelines, they enforce a "be nice" atmosphere, they carefully reviewed everything, blah blah blah...
They fail to see where a comment or an opinion is an actual insult as long as it isn't about a particular person. "That is going to look childish!" Yup, that comment is ok! "Why are you being no negative? Take your negativity somewhere else!" BOOM, comment removed. So glad people actually put pictures up on here of certain things, because some would almost not believe the ridiculousness.
I showed all the women I know at work, and my bridesmaids, everything! The forum, the comments, the "community guidelines", the removed comments, the rude woman, and they all said the same thing..."The admins must know this woman, because that shouldn't be okay, it is clearly bullying!" You cannot convince any of us otherwise! Shameful.
And like all other reviews on here, an admin will reply to this with "contact us further with questions or concerns or to help resolve... blah blah blah"... please, don't waste your time. Because you're not going to resolve anything, and I'm not going to waste my time reading it. But I will take the time to let people know about your "community guidelines" and how well you enforce them.