Greg B.

Match is good in the respect of being a paid site (if you really want to make use of it) in that it does not have a glut of spammers and fakes. The search tools are good and the format where you can scroll through a large number of profiles is much better than most other sites. Zoosk is probably the worst when it comes to that and search criteria.

The smart picks probably 80% beyond my range, and the carousel feature is worse- you have to say yes or no based only on a face with no other information and then have to spend purchased coins only to find out they may be 300 miles away and/or not a likely match. Neither seems to have any connection to my preferences and a waste of time.

I wish there were a way to filter those out of my age range from spamming me.
I am 61 male looking for a monogamous relationship yet in the last couple of weeks all the notifications I get of someone "liking" me are young women looking for "hookups" and non-monogamous. My profile states I am looking for a long term relationship. Those not within my age range or meet other criteria should not be allowed to contact or spam me. Then it's difficult to delete them all so I can see just the legit likes. It's to the point I am may opt-out of this site of they cannot do something to filter this. I think prostitution has invaded their site. And then trying to find contact information to receive help is non-existent. If OKcupid were interested in my business they would do something.