Honesty this is not a dating site, it's more for older adults to talk about sex, chat online about fantasies, in my 30 membership I bought gold and standard contacts, costing over 60 dollars, not once did I ever meet someone, I left over 85 messages not one was ever returned, I learned alot while there, profiles with just one picture 98% of the time they are fake, don't waste your time messaging them, and pay attention to local profiles that are on every time you log in, even though they have quite a few pictures, they seem to never leave the site, im guessing that they keep these profiles on so if someone new comes aboard, they will see local women think they can get a date and just play,, this got me aswell, don't buy into it, its fake. I hope that by saying this I have saved a few guys some money. Semper Fi