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2 Reviews by desmond

  • Dating.com

4/9/17

Same girls as on Asiandate, they all recall me aside from one girl who is sharing her profile. That happens a lot with both sites. Same deal wont develop only interested in chatting. You can dress it up anyway you wish but its a corrupt site with the men as the fools who spend trying to develop. The girls will not accept its cheaper to actual fly to the country in question and met them than spend $500 or so on pointless chat. Even suggest metting in a Police station, bring your passport along and they still claim oh i dont feel safe. You get the picture your more than likely chatting to man or some other, they cant met you as they are someone else. Scam site delete am post your comments. Ignore the postive ones the site places them here.

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  • AsianDate

4/3/17

Over three hundred girls contacted over 13 months. 10 phone calls. Not one single positive thing I can say about the site. Its a communications chat room so change the name to Chat.com and dont keep telling me its a communications platform i joined a datesite. The process is about chat and exchange of chat var letters or photos. Credits purchased is the name of the deal. Example, chat to girl A, exchange chat over a period of a month. $300. She either refuses to allow you to call her, or you call her and she remains on the site and never keeps in touch. One of those things. Not so fast remember you just spent $300. This works for this site as you cant get a refund. Tell the agency, of course, we cant force the girl to keep in touch or call you to call her. But equally the tell you we vet all the girls. Maybe. Vetted to make sure they dont allow you to get them away from the site. I have seen this girl over a year later, and had a fresh conversation with her. The reply. I like to chat, am not fake but am here to find my love. Really if so your nothing more than a prostitute as am paying for your time. Let me try to think of one positive thing. I cant nothing, customers service not much as they do nothing aside from tell you they will do nothing but always outline it var its in the terms of are condations, or if you find a fake girl please let us know. Really so you might spend several hundred dollar to find this out and then they might investigate it and then your still looking on this site to find love but spending at the same time. You need deep pockets to carry on. Equally when will the refund you the money, they dont just credits so you wont gain you get the picture, you do the work and pay both sides. Suggestion after chatting to a girl why not allow say after one hundred dollar of credits s[ent allow me to have unlimited chats to her. Nothing forthcoming on that idea. Another point. The site has a tick box allowing the ladies to call. Maybe, but when you ask for a lady to be allowed to call. They tell you this option doesn't work.
So how do you categorize the ladies. Certain, percentage of them join for the following as it, means flowers, perfume, and limited fun in the chat room. The sending of photos var chat and letter writing helps the local affiliate agencies. The next type of lady is the time waster but they must gain financially from this. Keep chatting as you keep topping up.
Next type Do call me. You can and they reply once and never more. Yet remain on the site. This is sophisticated as it appears nothing amiss with this lady. Fast forward, 6 or 8 months later and they still remain on the site, so its not love they are looking for, but again for communications. The site keep telling you its a communications platform and its just that. This happens over all countries and all cultures so dont be fooled into thinking its one country. Getting closer to finding love. The genuine ones must exists. Off course as this site fails genuine girls equally. If you like a guy, the chances are you wont find love from a womens point of view as the chap needs to be really loaded to keep coming back to chat. You might be getting several chats per hour each short in nature. So how can a girl getting any were. The communications pay to chat concept works both ways for the site and fails for both the man and women. Surely you must have one positive thing to say about it? No. Its not regulated and its a pay to chat site so nothing is guaranteed. The girls are mixed up with scammers including the agencies in home countries. It needs to be shut down immediately. But it keeps going as you see good looking ladies who will to chat, willing at times allow phone calls, but it all costs. How many girls do you need to speak to you before you gain? For the site its brilliant as they never lose. You try with girl A, nothing girl B nothing, now maybe C is worth trying with. So you allow her to tell you to take your time, then maybe you can call her, but recall your paying to speak to her, but you need to allow her to get to know you, right? So you spent maybe $300 on her. Stll wont allow you to call her. Forget her then move to D. Yet A, B, and C have all allowed the site to get your money, you dont get any benefit. Move to D, it could be like A, B again so nothing, move to D another time waster, but no this time you call her, but this is now E. You spent new dollar on the call. Watch you time as its expensive. Great you get her email or cell number. But remember like anything in life its only the start. Now you hit the new area of, her replying and keeping in touch. You cant control that. She remains on the site, you encounter the following. I replied to you, or i love you but need to speak here. Or i lost your email or cell number. By this stage, recall we are only on E. You still might be speaking to some new girls as you cant put all your efforts into one girl right given you might not get any place. But remember your paying the site to communicate all the time. Net spend goes up results zero. So we repeat this process with new girls new countries, and again the same results. How can this be possible? They cant all be at it?. Think about it as a business model. Pay to chat, means exactly this. Limit the time to chat to girls based on affordability. You get no free chats no matter how long you chat ignore the 3 credit they give you big deal. So you always have to fund the site to chat. As mentioned before to balance it out you should be able to chat for free to a girl after a period of time. The girl would benefit and your dollar also. But this cant work on this site. The girl isnt allowed this option either. So you always on the back foot with this model. The site tell you we vet the girls, the girls tell you am here to find love. Its out of your control. Needs industry standards and to be regulated to protect the customer. You dont have this. The site does what it wishes and the girls i have no idea who they are some might be ok but they are on the wrong site themselves. So in conclusion. Chat site not date site. If date site then you would gain some dates right? I have over 300 contacts on this site net spend over $3000 and am now an expert in this site. Avoid it. If not purchase shares in it and enjoy honest men spending money to chat and not find love.

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